The new way ?

     So yes I got done with school about a month and 5 days ago. When say school, I mean University/college anyone you wish to call it. That's actually not the purpose of me writing this post .
This post is majorly about the quest to find "the one " so far and some other things relating to it .
      It seems like these days finding a very serious person with the major traits that I'm looking for is really difficult , i kind of decided to give up.  Honestly, the traits are not hard or physical traits, but somehow the guys I've been meeting either lack some very vital content in their life. Ranging from honesty to even the least character trait. Some find it really hard to keep to,their words which makes me often wonder ,  "ok, this guy really claims to like me an all that, but what happens along the line if his problem of not keeping to his words becomes an issue ? .  Sometimes i begin to wonder whether all the good men are married or they are hiding lool. THe fine ones will form as if beauty is everything , even the "not so fine ones"  too have started forming haha. If girls form now, next thing they will call her a drama queen , i mean "What do men want really" ? There should actually be a movie like that .
Lately, chatted up an old acquaintance i met off twitter, and he was too cool tbh , chatting with him made crazy sense. As things went by , the issue of "us" came up and he claimed to want to take his time . I gave him quality space you know , but after that , we basically stopped talking . It was weird because it was very easy for him to have just zoned me and we would have continued our friendship . than raised my hopes up high and just disappear . I had an experience similar to that and decided not to let my emotions get the best of me ever!! .
Tbh. many good girls are ready to be serious but the boys they like or they are waiting for are either forming james bond everywhere or just not observant enough , the painful part is most times they get to realise all these things late , of which at that time , it might be irreversible .

       The bottom line of my long story is that guys should sit up and watch well for signs , they could be facial expressions or even in form of joke , anything at all. It will be really sad for you to regret not keeping the right girl because of one silly thing or the other .
Most girls including me  feel very awkward expressing their feelings to guys they like, so therefore they act them out , there can be in different ways really like ( always wanting to talk to you , keeping the convo going, asking you random questions etc) . Some girls tend to give up once they see you're not even showing a pint of interest, and if she is a good girl, you might lose her forever and end up biting your fingers. So guys, do we girls a favour and be observant , and please please and please , if you are not interested , tell the girl early!!!! instead of making her feel like a pest . Even the bible says that the man will leave his parents and cleave to his wife . Looking at biblical examples : Isaac was the one that went to look for a wife not the other way round , Boaz made the first move on Ruth . even the king that married Esther in the Bible made the first move.
      Trust me im not saying its bad for girls to make the first move , if they can , well why not, but if not guys don't let something good slip through you fingers because of one flimsy reason or another . Also guys try to build yourselves up as well , its not only girls that need to have good character and courtesy and all of that ,we all need it you know . Everything is not about money or face or even both , because in the end true friendship with includes ( good character and courtesy) will sustain relationships and all of those .

GUYS Y'ALL SHOULD SIT UP, THE GIRLS CAN'T BE TRYING TO SIT UP AND Y"ALL BE RELAXING AND FEELING CHILLED. IT'S A TWO SIDED GAME , EVEN THE COIN IS 2SIDED.

 LESS I FORGET, FRIENDSHIP IS KEY , IT IS THE BASIS FOUNDATION FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP .

Thanks for reading . Adios .

Till next time .

HIII, Its been too long, I think i actually miss blogging , maybe just a little. Actually a lot has happened in my life aside graduation and all that, I finally decided to create pages on different social medias and an email for my fashion empire. I feel so happy tbh . I've gotten a lot better , and soon i'll be posting some outfits I make or I've already made . Okay with all these been said I would like to go to the topic of today in my next post . ciao .