Monday, 12 September 2016

TOO SOON , TOO LATE .

This is actually a long but true story about my mistakes and how impatience made me throw true love  into the Bermuda triangle of love called breakup. I hope someone learns from this story,OK let's go.
     I was in High school, senior secondary school 2, i was shy and I hadn't even had a boyfriend then. I was not even popular, i kept to my self , all i did was go to school and try to survive . PS: i always sat at the back. 
George was quite popular, i have never had it in for the popular ones though, but he was special. I had a crush on him in SS1 but i had to overcome it because he wasn't even in my league .LOL. 
  One public holiday , children's day (May 27 , 2010) i can never forget , i didnt go home ( I stayed in the hostel) . My school organised something for those of us in school , so we had to attend it . After the event, I saw George standing somewhere around , he told someone he wanted to talk to me . Long story short, he wanted me to be his date for the upcoming social night. I was sure it was a dream , some of the "popular girls " didn't like the idea maybe they thought i was too petty for "great George". Finally, he got to ask for my number from someone , which was rare maybe I wasn't peng enough . Anyway we got talking .
     Fast forward to summer 2010, i was about entering my final year in high school and I decided to attend summer school . When he heard I was going to attend summer school, he decided to use the opportunity to attend summer classes to prepare for SAT/TOEFL . Summer started well , best summer of my life , this is the best part of the story . I was so shy, i always ran  home early so I didn't get to see George a lot , but we talked a lot on phone . He sent me tons and tons of messages , we talked every single day. We patronised MTN that year , MIDNIGHT CALL GANG !!! 
  At the of the beginning of the new session , we were already dating and that was the beginning of my 5 months reign as Queen Georgina beside my king George . He sang for me , we sang together , he made me love M.I . He is the only one I remember really singing for , he was my rock and Anchor. He was so proud of me , my pictures were all over his Facebook , the whole world knew us, my mum, dad , and siblings and his fam members as well  . One time he  called  a radio station  requested that a song should be  played for me . Another time he made an arrangement with MTN to send me love messages using a special number, he wrote me love letters , he sent flowers, he sent anybody he could sent to tell me how much he loved me . He showered me with love . He never forced me to do anything I didn't want to do
   On my birthday, we went out of school to get Ice-cream , and just chill. Unfortunately we had the bigger fight ever, i was frustrated , I tried to stay by myself because I felt like every thing had crumbled and my heart couldn't take it .  Everybody saw us apart and knew there was something wrong and trust me the anger led to me taking an action that still follows me today . I cried all day , i even cried myself to sleep . Finally we reconciled . For my birthday , he got me the best card ever , I still have it till date . Most times , we met up when school was over , we would either come to my class or we would just meet up. 
  We finally began to drift apart, and I didn't do anything about it , I didn't really know that communication would help us , although he kept skipping school. Things continued like that for like a month and I finally decided to end things . I saw something that looked like he had something to do with another girl in his inbox on Facebook coupled with the strain in our relationship . I finally ended things with him on a sheet of paper. I wasn't bold enough to tell him face to face, but the moment i put that piece of paper in his hand I started regretting my action but I couldn't turn back the hands of time. Till today his record hasn't been beaten by anyone i've dated since then. 

 ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT TRUE LOVE EXIST BECAUSE GEORGE SHOWED ME WITHOUT HOLDING BACK .

- I just want y'all to understand that Patience is very essential ,setting aside your ego in a relationship
 is very essential .
- Communicate !!!
- Also live one day at a time , if someone makes you happy stay with the person . Don't keep thinking of   what might happen tomorrow . 
Finally love when you can , you may never have any other chance . ciao . 


P.S. Scorpios are the BOMMMBBB!!!!



2 comments:

  1. Okay pls I'll need the full gist on Whatsapp
    See you there 😘
    You'll be fine
    And I don't think anyone has loved me this way
    Sigh
    I'm sad you lost it all
    Let's chat boo

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  2. Queen Georgina 😍😍

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